As we emerge from lockdown
features a different gay man's holiday destination that you can visit here in the UK. Please check each of the venues listed as some may still
have Covid-19 restrictions or they could be only just re‑opening after a long closure.
Still teetering on the brink, OutUK's Adrian Gillan meets Belfast boys
in a frontier town on the UK's edge.
It's strange. My second visit in as many years; no passport needed and just an hour's
flight from London. But descending through the thick grey clouds, your brain still
tells you you're landing at some strangely remote yet urban outpost - Moscow or
somewhere. And there's the raw attraction.|
Don't misunderstand, despite the well-fortified police stations and the
brightly-coloured paramilitary murals, Belfast is far, far safer now than for many a decade. It is
a beautiful city with lovely people and attractions ranging from the imposing
City Hall to the new Waterfront area down by the River Lagan.
Darkness falls on the River Lagan.
Opinions differ as to which religious culture is more homophobic but it can be
argued that Protestantism has the edge, traditionally adopting a zealous missionary
position in all matters sexual, whilst the Catholic Church has tended to turn
more of the blind eye - some maintaining many Catholic priests, scandals apart,
operating like an unofficial gay support network in practice.
There is still a lot of segregation of Protestants and Catholics, not so much due
to any simmering resentment, more because you are likely to grow up in a district,
be educated at a school and socialise in places, peopled by those solely of your
official - if not actual - faith. This perhaps explains why the gay community is
so interesting and important: LGBs of all sectarian backgrounds have the opportunity
and excuse to mix and bond socially and in solidarity in a way not always available
to many straights.
Supporting our Catholic theory, the IRA itself - extreme left-wing in origin and
outlook - has never had a problem with gay people and has had a fair number of
openly gay members. It is true that IRA faction INLA did shoot dead an off-duty
police officer in a gay bar in the late '90s - but they shot him because he was
a police officer and a soft target, not because he was gay. And in 1997 Sinn Féin
produced the best pro-gay policy paper of any party in Northern Ireland. Equally
interestingly, Unionist paramilitary groups like the UDA and UDF, with their
arguably less intellectual heritage, have traditionally been more homophobic -
even though notorious Red Hand founder John McKeague was himself gay.
Nowadays the Democratic Unionist Party which is holding on to overall power by a
fingernail, is still fairly homophobic. They oppose gay rights and equal marriage and
have blocked many reforms to both. The age of concent was changed to 16 for all, a
decade or more ago, but it's one of few changes politically for gay rights in Northern Ireland.
Proud Gay colors in Commercial Court, Belfast.
Photo: RUBEN RAMOS
Other parties, notably Sinn Fein, continue to press for wider gay reform and there could be changes
ahead should the make-up of the Northern Ireland Assembly be slightly altered.
Ten years ago, there was little or no gay scene to speak of in Belfast, but now there's something of
a cultural renaissance and the city has become some what more camp and colourful. The annual Pride Festival
takes place every year usually the last week of July and culminates in a colourful parade and outdoor concert
which is warmly received by the majority of the city's residents. While you probably won't see any gay men
holding hands in the street, gays and lesbians can be spotted everywhere you go and homophobic attacks
verbal or physical are fairly rare.
OK, so that's the cultural Birdseye. Not much to frighten a gay boy there - quite
the reverse. Time to hit the compact scene around the Cathedral Quarter just North
East of centre!
There's nowhere better to start than the John Hewitt Bar at the very
heart of it - a Bohemian gay-friendly pub where artists, musicians and writers
mingle and listen to the nightly live music sessions.
Belfast nightlife has undergone a renaissance.
The soviet-chic Kremlin style bar just down Donegall Street has to be your next stop. You enter
beneath a huge statue of Lenin into the Long Bar where drag acts often hold court. At weekends you
can progress through to the club room and the new Red Square annex, playing pop
and house to the true trend-setters. Watch out for the occasional foam party
if you don't mind getting wet.
Boombox is a gay club above the gay bar Maverick and they use the same entrance. Great place for a city like Belfast, with a diverse
set of people taking to the floor upstairs playing good music, whilst downstairs it's friendly staff, great cocktails and good prices too. They have
lots of offers like a Beer Bucket for just £12.
The Union Street Bar & Restaurant opened its doors first as a bar and then added a restaurant. It was originally
a Victorian shoe factory, and still retains its original wrought iron pillars and date plaques. It's one of
Belfast's most trendy award winning gay bars with an excellent late club night on Saturday.
Less gay, but still very friendly is Queens Bar, a city centre pub located at Queens Arcade which is worth dropping into
if you want to have a drink with friends.
GETTING CLEAN AND DIRTY
The city has now only has one gay sauna. Outside Sauna is
set in Belfast’s Gay quarter and offers the perfect atmosphere for gay and bisexual men to
meet relax and chill out.
They offer a Hump Day for T/Vs on the 1st Wednesday of each month, Naked in the Dark on the 1st Thursday, Otters, Cubs & Bears
on the 1st Friday and a Sports Wear Night on the 3rd Tuesday.
Speaking of which - and if you like it outside - the bohemian college quarters
around Queen's University and the leafy Botanic Gardens just south of centre is a
veritable daytime cutefest which transforms into a nocturnal frenzy, especially
amidst the dim-lit cul-de-sacs around Agincourt Avenue.
GETTING & STAYING THERE
There are five choices of airline and two airports that you can fly into - Belfast International and Belfast City. From London it's about an hour
and a quarter and can cost you as little or as much as you like. Fares start from around £30. Easyjet, Ryanair, Air Lingus, Fly Be and
British Airways are all options and if you are looking for somewhere to stay you can check out special prices
at gay friendly hotels with Bookings.
THE LITTLE BLACK BOOK
Belfast Pride (Website)
Boombox Belfast (108 Donegall St; T: 028 9094 2049;)
Cara-Friend LBGT Youth (Website)
John Hewitt Bar (27 Donegall Street; T: 028 9023 3768; Website)
Kremlin (96 Donegall Street; T: 028 9080 9700; Website)
Outside Sauna (1 - 5 Donegal Lane; T: 028 9032 4448; Website)
Queens Bar (4 Queens Arcade; T: 028 9024 9105; facebook)
The Maverick (1 Union St; T: 028 9094 2049; Website)
Union Street Bar & Restaurant (8-14 Union St; T: 028 9031 6060; Website)
Revised September 2021.