It bore Aphrodite but won't bore you! OutUK's Adrian Gillan meets Med men in
the island idyll of Cyprus!
For the last five millennia, Cyprus has been jealously sought for its strategic
position at the junction between Europe, Africa and Asia - engendering an immensely
rich blend of influences and cultures. Past rulers of this sun-drenched 250 by 90 miles isle, topped off by the central Troodos
Mountains where you can ski in the Winter, have included the Ancient Greeks, Romans, Ottomans and us Brits (1878-1960,
leaving behind our left-hand-driving and sovereign military bases) - to name a few.
An independent republic since 1960, the Turks have nonetheless illegally occupied
the north since 1974, nominally in response to political instability precipitated
by the military Junta in Greece - their land claim unrecognised by any other nation.
Mercifully, since 2003, it is now pretty easy to cross the once-divisive yet still-monitored "Green Line".
Birthplace of Aphrodite
80% of the island's 800,000-strong population are Greek Cypriot, the remainder split
between Turkish Cypriots and others. An EU member since 2004, the Cyprus Pound (CYP£)
is worth just over UK £1.50.
Paphos, to the west, contains a UNESCO World Heritage site, boasting stunning
Roman residences and mosaics in the old Kato Paphos district plus fine fort in
the picturesque harbour; capital Nicosia to the north boasts an ancient old town
with countless churches, mosques and museums; Larnaca to the east, offers marina,
beach and many historical gems.
Hotel-brimming Limassol, to the south, makes
a perfect base for exploring the historic riches, not only of its near surrounds - including
Kourion (theatre and palace), Kolossi (castle linked to the Knights of the Order of St. John)
and Limassol Castle (possibly where our Richard I married, housing a medieval museum) -
but of the whole island.
Remains of the Kourion Theatre and Palace
Make sure to stop off at the Sanctuaries of Apollo and Aphrodite between Paphos and Limassol;
and make the pilgrimage to the nearby legendary coastal Birthplace of Aphrodite: Chronos cut
off his father Uranus' balls and chucked them in the sea, which duly foamed and gave birth
to the Goddess of Love and Beauty, who calmly stepped ashore on Cyprus.
Age of Consent is 17 for all on Cyprus. Sex or nudity in public is strictly illegal;
if you meet someone nice outdoors, head somewhere private. Overt public displays of homosexuality,
including holding hands, can prompt unwelcome attention in this still-Greek-Orthodox-Church-swayed
society, so be discreet; although attitudes are changing - as so often, spearheaded by the young.
Cyprus is also home to clubbing capital Ayia Napa which is at the far eastern end
of the south coast of the island.
The oldest gay bar in Cyprus, Alaloum in Limassol nestles in a 15th Century building in a
discreet little street just back from the Old Town seafront, aptly around the corner from
the Cathedral. Open 10pm 'til late.|
To take airs, stroll the stretch of Molos Sculpture Park
by the beach, level with - you guessed it - the Cathedral. Or check out the Dasoudi pine tree
forest promenade area overlooking the sea, a little out east towards the Yermasoyia district.
When in Paphos, head straight for the Different Bar - a swish, modern, airy, trendy homo hub
bang in the middle of the main nightlife district. For airs, check out the area around
the old fort on the cute harbour, come dark. If in the capital Nicosia, you can be sure of a fun time
in gay-friendly Scorpios Platinum Club.
Some of the Bar talent on the island.
There is a gay sauna on Cyprus - the Thermos Spa. It's a private members club, but
membership is free of charge. Just show proof that you are over 18 years. Facilities include a sauna,
steam room, well-equipped dark room, private cabins, lounge and bar. It's located near Limassol, but you'll
need a car or other form of transport'to get there. Open Wednesday, Friday and Saturday nights.
Also in Limassol is Sousami, a really cozy Gay friendly bar where the music is always amazing. Definitely recommend to people
that prefer smaller spaces over huge, crowded clubs. There's a beautiful internal garden, so be sure to notice the passion fruit tree.
Alternatively, Ithaki Venue is a night club in Nicosia, and the only venue that offers an LBGT+ night in the area.
Before the lockdowns took hold this was very much the place to be.
BED & BOARD
easyJet now operate the London Gatwick-Paphos route with one-way all-inclusive fares from around £75
though it's much more in peak season.
We stayed at the stunning Londa Hotel in Limassol. Following a multi-million euro refurbishment,
and designed by an Italian team, the Londa is a modern, elegant and stylish hotel, merging influences
from the island and the Mediterranean. You can book this and other Cyprus hotels at special rates
through our hotel partners Booking.com.
For more info, there's the Cyprus Tourism Organisation visitcyprus.com.
THE LITTLE BLACK BOOK
Alaloum (1 Loutron Street, Limassol; T: +357 25 369 726)
Different Bar (6-7 Agia Napa Street, Pafos; T: +357 26 934 668; Website)
Ithaki Venue (Nikiforou Foka 33, Nicosia; T: +357 22 250500)
Scorpios Platinum Club (3 Stassinos Street, Nicosia; T: +357 22 351 850)
Sousami (Kitiou Kyprianou 8, Limassol; T: +357 99 588343; Website)
Thermos Spa (13 Agios Georgiou, Limassol; T: +357 99 994 434)
Revised August 2022.