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A NIGHT IN WITH THE BOYS

If you've ever thought of hiring an escort but never known the correct form you might be interested in this from an escort in Manchester.

Here's our do's and don'ts guide to just what's expected from someone who knows his way around a good night in.

"Most escorts are regular guys who enjoy what they do for a living. There are many degrees of escort work, ranging from a therapeutic massage to full-on, paying for whatever kind of desire you may have. Prices range from 80 an hour for a massage to 1000 a night for higher-priced escorts in large cities who may be staying with you overnight.

What kind of man is looking to hire an escort? Answer: Any kind of man might hire one. It depends on your situation in life at the time. You may have been married all your life to a woman; or someone who's married a man; you may want to see what it's like to pay a guy for some attention, or try out something new. No matter who you are, what position you have in life, how wealthy you are, you should not feel bad for wanting to hire an escort.

There are some issues that you should be aware of before you actually hire one. They are: laws and legality; prices; what to expect; and how to prepare yourself for the experience.

Unfortunately, in many places prostitution is still illegal. You should try to be aware of the laws of the state, province, or country you are going to meet up in. If you decide to hire an escort from the Internet, the odds are that you will not have any legal problems. Escorts put themselves at much more legal risk than their clients.

In Great Britain (England, Wales and Scotland), the act of engaging in sex as part of an exchange of sexual services for money is legal, but a number of related activities, including soliciting in a public place, kerb crawling, owning or managing a brothel, pimping and pandering, are crimes. Hiring a guy off the Internet is therefore reasonably safe.

You should always try to talk directly with the escort before you make any type of appointment. Assure yourself that this person is friendly and professional and that the two of you are likely to get on. Don't just ring them out the blue - text or message them first and fix a time when the two of you can talk.

One thing you can do, as a client, is to be up front about what you expect to get out of the session with the escort. If you have special needs or desires, try to explain them in the best way you can. Odds are fairly good that you are not alone in your desires, and if the escort has experience, he has probably heard it all before.

Please don't ask to pay an escort with a personal cheque. Usually an escort does not use his real name and this presents a problem when he tries to cash the cheque. Just make sure you get cash, ahead of time, and avoid all hassles with money to begin with. You can get cash advances on debit or credit cards from most cash machines.

As far as when to pay the escort, that is usually up to him. You can ask right off and save an awkward moment during the appointment. You may want to discreetly place the fee on a table or dresser in plain sight. Just be sure that you count out the exact amount agreed upon. As an escort one of the worst things is when a client underpays - the escort doesn't know if it is intentional or not. If you have enjoyed your time with him you can always offer a little extra at the end of the evening. It's not expected by most escorts, but it's often appreciated if they have been particularly attentive.

Major considerations for the meet are hygiene and safety. Just as you would want the escort you hire to be clean physically, you must expect the same of yourself. Hygiene is very important. You should always shower or bathe before your appointment, and make sure your clothes are clean and smart. Make sure you have plenty of good quality condoms and lube, and don't assume that your escort will agree to bareback unless the two of you have specifically discussed it in advance. Most guys will not.

One thing to keep in mind: escorts see all types of men. If you have a weight problem, feel too skinny, feel unattractive, or feel insecure about any other physical aspect of yourself, you should remember that you are hiring an escort who is hopefully a professional and should be able to deal with any of those things.
Other than that, if it is your first time and you are nervous or unsure, it's okay to ask the escort for reassurance. Many guys are used to first-timers and do their upmost to ensure that you have an enjoyable time. If you found the guy online then do send off a review. Be kind and fair - he will appreciate your efforts especially if you want to meet up again."

OutReach is the OutUK guide to Help and Resources for Gay Men in the UK which includes a section on Escorts and Models.

 

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